How to social network Facebook VS Google +

How to social network Facebook VS Google +

It seems like everyone is talking about Google lately, has develop a new social networking conglomerate from the giant internet search engine Google. Although the platform is still in its field trial stage and is by invitation only, there is already a huge buzz about the product. So what makes Google different from Facebook, the current most popular social networking site?

Through its there main features Circles, Hangouts and Sparks, Google differentiates it self because it

Being in Love With a Person You'll Never Meet #2

 How to Stop Being in Love With a Person You'll Never Meet,Part #2 

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Current situations - Jobs, personal demands, and even being on the front line or in prison can all be situations which are difficult to extract yourself from, for obvious reasons. If you or the one you love is in a constraining situation, then it will surely hinder your chances or efforts to meet. 

 ~Consider all of these aspects of your relationship, emotions and lives. If you think that it is still feasible, then by all means you should at least form a plan to meet. However if, like you originally suspected, you're never going to meet the other person, then you need to accept the inevitable, take actions to end the relationship, and move on.

~End the relationship. You need to talk or communicate to the person that you know you are never going to meet and explain that you want to end the relationship. Chances are, they will have been feeling the same way about not meeting. End it exactly the same way as you would a normal, in-person relationship, and expect similar heartache to arise, too. Ending the relationship means ceasing all romantic and emotional interactions (and possibly all contact) with the person and making it a clean break without getting into a heated argument. It really is important to take all the same steps as you would with a real-life relationship - block all contact and don't assume you can be friends!

~Get closure. The key is to make sure that both of you know that there is no chance ever again, no matter how hard it will be for a while, and that things are not going to work out. If you still feel like you love the person, try to gain closure from within and tell yourself a few things which will ease your fears:

You will find love again! Internet relationships are hard because of all the "What ifs...?". What if you don't find anyone else? What if they really are 'the one'? What if it could have worked out? What if they lied about everything they said? What if you had met them—would it have been different? Just remember that if someone who never met you could feel so strongly about you and you could feel so strongly about them, then someone else you can meet with face-to-face will be able to do this too.

If meeting the person really isn't a possibility, then it's nobody's fault. Internet and long-distance relationships are difficult, and engaging in one is commendable in itself. However, the odds are against you, and you both have to be in a similar place of mind to make one work successfully.

Relationships are hard, even in real life. If you were having doubts or struggling with a relationship over the Internet, be thankful that you've saved yourself the trouble of having those problems doubled in real life. Situations change when you meet someone, and quite often not for the better. You can never know what would've happened if you had met in real life, so leave your fears, doubts and "What ifs...?" behind. It's time to move on with your life and love and start healing yourself.

  Just be thankful you didn't even have to meet the person. If things had gone wrong, as implied by the difficulty of meeting, then knowing the person in real life would make it harder to get over them. You really need to just forget all about them. Even if it sounds cruel, you need to forget they ever existed.

   If you really both loved each other, then you'll want each other to be happy. If you can't satisfy the relationship's needs by meeting, then you know it's for the best that you go your separate ways. "If you love someone set them free" is a good saying to remember at this point. You will soon feel much better about ending the relationship if you know it will be making the other person happy and you'll feel more invigorated knowing that the other person would want you to be happy also.

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Tips dan Hal Yang Harus Dilakukan oleh wanita Untuk Menghadapi Pria Pemalu dan Pendiam.

Tips dan Hal Yang Harus Dilakukan oleh wanita Untuk Menghadapi Pria Pemalu dan Pendiam.

Kamu termasuk salah satu wanita yang menyukai seorang pria, namun sayangnya sang pria terkesan pendiam dan malu untuk mengungkapkan perasaannya?

Yupz..sedikit menjengkelkan, namun itulah yang biasanya terjadi kepada pria pemalu ketika ia jatuh cinta. Semua kembali kepada kamu, jika kamu memang benar-benar menyukainya, maka perjuangkan. Bila kamu merasa jengkel dan membuat rasa cinta kamu berkurang maka tinggalkanlah pria pemalu ini.

Bagi kamu yang terlanjur sudah menyukai pria tersebut, pastinya akan membutuhkan kerja keras agar cinta kamu bisa mendapat respon. Oleh karena itu, pada page kali ini, kita akan membahas Beberapa Tips dan Hal Yang Harus Dilakukan oleh wanita Untuk Menghadapi Pria Pemalu dan Pendiam.

Mencoba Untuk Memahami Pria Pemalu dan Pendiam

Ini membutuhkan waktu dan memerlukan banyak kesabaran. Ingat, kamu tidak dapat mengubah seseorang dalam hitungan hari, minggu, bulan atau bahkan tahun.

Mengambil Inisiatif Lebih Dahulu

Pria pemalu tidak akan banyak bicara. Jadi, kamu harus ambil inisiatif lebih dong. Cobalah untuk memancingnya bicara dengan melempar topik-topik kesukaannya.

Bersabar Dalam Menghadapi Pria Pemalu dan Pendiam

Ini adalah tips paling utama dalam menghadapi pria pemalu. Sabar. Kesabaranmu lambat laun pasti akan mengubahnya.

Bereaksi Normal Terhadap Pria Pemalu dan Pendiam

Pria pemalu mungkin terlihat aneh. Namun, bukan berarti dia tak bisa berubah. Jadi, bereaksilah secara normal dan tidak memandangnya sebelah mata.

Beberapa Tips dan Hal Yang Harus Dilakukan Untuk Menghadapi Pria Pemalu dan Pendiam diatas tidaklah bisa dilakukan dan mendapatkan keberhasilan dalam hitungan waktu singkat. Mengubah sifat seseorang memang membutuhkan waktu dan perjuangan. Dan itu hanya bisa dilakukan jika kamu benar-benar mencintainya.

Salam cinta dAn Damai Selalu  ^_^...

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How Technology made us Rude and Lazy

E-mails, text messages, voicemails- you name it, we’ve got it. Technology has created many creative and wonderful ways for us to keep in touch with each other, as well as make our lives easier at the same time. With our busy schedules, it is not always easy to keep in touch with friends and family the way we would always like to. The days of sitting down and having a nice, long phone conversation seems like a memory of the past and is a rare thing to happen on a frequent basis these days. Not to worry though, because with E-mails and text messaging available, we are sure to keep in touch with people properly, right? Wrong! One might assume that the more options we have with

communication, the better we would be at it, but studies and observances have shown this not to be the case. It seems like the more options we get and the easier ways of communication become, the ruder and lazier we get.
Everyone considers themselves important and expects others to see them the same way. If we do not get respectful and thoughtful acknowledgement from others, we feel hurt and upset and this is happening a lot these days. Text messages have replaced the “phone call” and even then people do not always keep up with text messages very well either. We have gotten used to receiving e-mails and text messages without getting back to people in a timely manner, if at all. It seems like as long we are being kept in touch with, everything is fine, but what we often forget is that our lack of manners to acknowledge these messages leaves the sender feeling unappreciated, unacknowledged, hurt, upset and even worried. 

In this world of heavy studying and long work hours, we all have a mutual understanding that there are not enough hours in the day, so no one is really expecting anyone to give them a long time of undivided attention.  That being said however, people do still expect to be appreciated and respected, especially by those they consider their friends.  With everyone just a click or push button away, would it really hurt to just quickly send an e-mail or text message back, letting someone know that their message has been received? It only takes a minute and will make everyone happy. Your friend will be happy and will not be left wondering and assuming the worst and you will feel better that you treated someone the way you want and expect to be treated. 

Oh yes- and don’t forget to give your friends a phone call if you actually have the time.  Many people have expressed their annoyance and frustration when their friends and family choose to text them rather than actually talk to them voice to voice. Text messaging is something you should only do if you only have little time to send a message out, but should not be replacement of real communication. So while we enjoy the pleasures of advancing technology and use it to our benefit (as we should), let us remember not to throw our manners and consideration out the window.

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How To Be Honest Without Being Harsh,Part #2

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Be as specific as possible.

Your friend is likely to read more into what you’re saying, because they’ll (sometimes subconsciously) wonder what you left unsaid. So be as exact as possible in telling them what they need to know. It is a good idea also to think about what else they might read into your statement and proactively tell them that there is nothing more to it than what you’ve stated. This has the advantage of introducing positive emotions into your statement, which softens the impact.

·         While you should stick to the objective facts when describing the behavior or issue in question, this is not to say that you abandon emotion. Showing that the person’s plight moves you or concerns you is absolutely appropriate-they’re much more likely to connect with you as a result and realize that you’re on their side. Again, all things in balance-don’t be moledramatic. Show warmth and empathy.

Steps

·         simply knowing something to be “scientifically” or  “religiously” proven does not give a free pass to be forceful or rude when trying to enlighten another person to the facts you think you know or beliefs you hold. You still have a responsibility to respect the dignity of the other person and to avoid suggestions of ignorance, stupidity or eternal damnation. Honesty without being harsh means acknowledging that the other person has reasons for resisting your “truths” and it behooves you to find the pathway to opening their mind to you point of view by being polite, sensitive and respectful.

·         Remember – take note of the person with whom you want to be honest, and adjust your tone accordingly. That is, don’t be over – the –top with a quiet and shy person.

·         In short, don’t be rude. There are other ways to inform someone of something without directly hurting his or her feelings

·         Ideally, “wrap” a negative statement with two positive ones.

Warnings

·         While excessive white lies are counterproductive, remember that some things are just better left unsaid. That which you haven’t said doesn’t need to be taken back.

·         Some people confuse nastiness with honesty. This happens where a person decides that he or she has a mandate to correct the ways of another person and says nasty, undermining things constantly, then excuses the nastiness by saying things like: “it’s for your own good” or “I only want the best for you”. Appointing yourself as the judge and jury of another person’s way of living or being is not about honesty but about enforcing your preferences over someone else who has less power than you (such as parent over a child, a teacher over a student, a boss over a subordinate, etc.). honest guidance is kindly and respectful of the other person, no matter their age, and does not seek to abuse the other person into submission.

·         Be aware that for some people, “taking offense” is a means of manipulating others. In the case of such people, who claim to be “outraged” at almost anything that they don’t like or like or feel uncomfortable with there is always a risk that honesty will bring out a backlash. In some cases, you may need to be prepared to weather the whining but provided you have been truthful, kind and you have objectively assessed the need for the truth to be told, then don’t feel you need to back down or retract what you’ve said. Honesty is not to be cowered into submission by people who don’t like what they hear and respond with threats of suing or blogging.

·         Name calling tells other people that you’re frustrated; it does not amount to honesty.

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Suka Duka Menjalin Hubungan Pacaran Dengan Teman di Kantor

Suka Duka Menjalin Hubungan Pacaran Dengan Teman di Kantor –

 apakah kamu termasuk salah orang yang menjalin hubungan pacaran di kantor? Yupz… jika iya, pastinya kamu tahu suka duka yang bias kamu rasakan menjalani hubungan pacaran di kantor. Tiada hari tanpa bertemu si dia dan itu selalu membuat kamu semangat. Setidaknya itulah yang bias dilihat oleh orang lain terhadap kamu yang menjalin hubungan pacaran di kantor. Namun benarkah hanya kebahagiaan yang dirasakan ketika menjalin hubungan pacaran di kantor?

Bagi kamu yang kebetulan merasa iri dan tetarik juga untuk menjalani hubungan pacaran dikantor, ada baiknya kamu analisa terlebih dahulu suka dukanya. Jangan memutuskan sesuatu hanya karena melihat teman lain yang telah lebih dahulu menjalaninya. Bisa saja apa yang tampak keseharian di mata kamu, belum tentu itu yang menggambarkan aslinya. Oleh karena itu, pada kesempatan kali ini, kita akan membahas tentang Suka Duka Menjalin Hubungan Pacaran Dengan Teman di Kantor.

SUKANYA PACARAN DI KANTOR

·         Selalu bersama. Jadwal bekerja biasanya menyita banyak waktu bagi kamu untuk bertemu dengan pacar. Namun memiliki kekasih di tempat kerja yang sama bias menguntungkan. Sebab kamu dan si dia bias selalu menghasiskan waktu bersama dengan lebih banyak.

·         Suasana bekerja yang menyenangkan. Tidak jarang pekerjaan membuat kamu stress dan ingin cepat-cepat pulang ke rumah. Tetapi kalau ada pacar di kantor, suasana bekerja akan menjadi lebih menyenangkan.

·         Membantu pekerjaan. Meskipun kamu berada di divisi yang berbeda dengan pacar di kantor, kamu bias minta bantuan padanya saat mengalami kesulitan.

·         Pengertian. Bekerja di satu atap juga akan membuat kamu menjadi pribadi yang lebih pengertian pada kekasih. Misalnya pacar harus lembur, kamu tidak akan langsung marah padanya karena tahu alas an yang jelas.

DUKANYA PACARAN DI KANTOR

·         Gossip. Masalah utama mengenai hubungan asmara di kantor adalah gossip. Jadi kamu harus siap-siap jadi bahan pembicaraan orang-orang satu kantor memang berniat pacaran dengan teman kerja.

·         Susah professional. Terkdang kamu tidak bida berpendapat secara netral karena takut menyakiti perasaan pacar. Misalnya, si dia melakukan kesalahan saat bekerja, namun kamu hanya bias diam dan membiarkannya.

·         Bosan. Bertemu setiap hari dengan pacar memang menyenangkan. Tetapi apakah kamu pernah membayangkan bahwa suatu saat kamu dan pasangan akan bosan satu sama lain?

·         Susah putus. Dunia serasa jadi milik berdus saat kamu baru jadian. Namun apa yang terjadi setlah kamu putus? Ejekan dan gangguan teman kerja yang lain bahkan bias memaksa kamu berhenti dari pekerjaan.

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