Being in love with someone who can never be yours



  Being in love with someone who can never be yours 

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Being in love with someone who can never be yours is a painful state to be in. If you truly that there is no chance that your beloved will leave his/her partner for you, it is best to move on. Try to have life with varied interests. Pick up a new hobby or learn a new language. Join a course in which you were always interested but never had time for. If you did not have a job earlier, look for one now. Once you fill your life with things todo and learn, you will be too busy to obsess about someone who you could not have. Also while it may seem difficult at first make a definite attempt to get back to the social circuit. Go out with friends and co-workers.

 Attend parties and celebrations but try to be part of a larger group. Give yourdelf time to put pain behind before you rejoin the dating scene. Keep yourself open to making friends and meeting interesting people but at the same time don’t rush to a rebound relationship. Even after your best efforts if you find that you cannot get over the person, then take the help of a counselor. It is much easier for a professional therapist to come up with effective solutions which will help you to cope with your feelings of rejection and get on with your life.

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Consider possibilities

Hower under certain circumstances you may be justified in being hopeful even if your beloved is in another relationship at present. It could be that he/she finds in you a moral and emotional companion that they cannot find in their primary partners. More significantly your beloved might be in a genuinely unhappy relationship and it is only a matter of  time before he/she opts out. Once your married partner is able to regain control over his/her life and make his/her own choices, you may see your patience rewarded and your love returned.

Yet another scenario when it may be alright to entertain hopes of a committed man or woman is when they are going through the process of a divorce. Your beloved may have filed for divorce after being in a bad marriage for quite a while. And since filing for devorce is not the same thing as being finally divorced, it means that until the process is though, your partner and his/her spose are still married for all legal purposes. So until the time your partner’s divorce comes through, it may be OK for you to consider dating him/her. At the same time though ascertain for sure that this is also something that the other person wants. He/she may be too emotionslly traumatized to jump into another relationship right away or be untrusting of potential partners.

Finally consider the fact that you can still love someone without being in a romatic relationship with him/her. The most beautiful aspects of love like affection, trust and mutually enjoyment in each other’s company can all be possible without romace or sex. So intead of wringing your hands over the impossibility of a ‘relationship’ with the person why not instead take pleasure in the harmonious equation you share with that person?
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