How to be ‘Free’ to Attract Your Ideal Mate
imagine that you are someone who has a strong desire
to share your life with another. You
want the camaraderie; love, passion and partnership Manifest the Love of Your
Life that you imagine could be possible in an intimate relationship.
However, given the fact that you are not in a
relationship, I would assert that something is in your way. Perhaps you have
loved and failed, or loved and lost in the past, and you are afraid of
repeating the same mistake.
I could say that you are not “FREE” to Attract Your
Ideal Mate.
If you imagined that you were amagnet for love and
partnership but your magnet was dirty, your job would be to clean your magnet
so you would be “FREE” to Attract Your Ideal Mate.
Step 1 – Identify
what is in your way
In order to clean your magnet, Step 1 is to identify
what is making it dirty. The best way to begin is to ask yourself the following
questions:
·
What do I believe
about myself that would hold me back from attracting him or her?
·
What do I believe
about men or women in general that would
hold me back from attracting him or her?
·
What do I believe
about my life that would hold me back from attracting him or her?
Step 2 – The
origin of your beliefs
In Step 2 begin to take a deep look at the origin of
these beliefs and ask yourself if they empower you to attract Your Ideal Mate.
If the answer is, “NO”, the question you may be left with is, “What would it
take to discard those old beliefs?”
For instance if you believe that you are not
attractive because you are carrying a few extra pounds and “men” don’t like
women who are “full figured”, or you are bald and “women” don’t like bald men,
this could block your magnetism. Now ask yourself the following question:
1. “Who” or “What” influenced your belief?
2. Is this belief externally driven by the media?
3. Do “YOU” really believe this, or are you just stuck
with it?
4. If you could make up a belief that empowered you, what
would it be?
5. Do you get to choose what you believe?
6. Can you create your Destiny?
Step 3 – Choose
beliefs that empower you
If you can see that you get to choose what you
believe, Step 3 is to discard by changing each belief that is dirtying your
Attraction Magnet to ones that empower you rather than impede you. Then find
ways to reinforcr these new beliefs. For instance, find examples in life of men
who love full figured wome, or you men find examples of women who love bald
men.
When thinking about Attracting Your Ideal Mate, your
tendency is to think he/she is “ out there ‘ somewhere and you have to find
them.
The premise of
my Work is that you only need to “ready yourself” and he/she will “appear” in
your life. This does not mean you won’t go
out looking, but that you have freed yourself from your limitations, along with
having a clear Vision, so he/she can be magnetized to you. And you will
actually be able to recognize him/her.
So we could say
that this has more to do with your own inner journey, facilitating clarity and
readiness.
To support you in this journey, do the following
exercise:
1. Determine your emotional state with regards to
Attracting Your Ideal Mate. Are you fearful, insecure, jealous of others,
angry, discouraged, bored, hopeful, optimistic, enthusiastic, empowered, or
joyful?
2. Attach an image to your emotional state. Feeling
fearful might be represented by a black hole. Feeling joyful might be
represented by a sunset
3. If your emotional state is not where you would like it
to be, identify what you would like it to be. Would you like to feel happy,
fearless, empowered, or joyful about Attracting Your Ideal Mate?
4. Create a new image that represents your chosen
emotional state. If you were fearless, perhaps you would see yourself
approaching Your Ideal Mate and surrounding him/her with the energy of Love.
5. Find a way to manifest this image in your life through
pictures or objects, and allow yourself to feel this emotional state several
times a day when you think about Attracting Your Ideal Mate?
If you practice this daily, your Ideal Mate will be
magnetized into your life.
Emotions attached to an image – negative or positive –
manifest that into a reality. Therefore, Take Charge of Your Life by
Intentionally Creating It.
