How to Flirt with a Guy
Flirting
up a cute guy might seem like an impossible task, but it’s easier than you
think! Here’s how to pull it off.
Step
. This will show him that you are having fun, and will put him at ease. It will also help you relax!
. Find
subtle ways to put yourself in his path. Walk past his desk on your way out the
door, or take your dog to
2. Consider making the first move. Sure, you could wait
for him to come to you. But there’s a lot of expectation on guys to start the
pursuit, and it can get tiring. If you approach him, you’ll instantly stand out
among all the other girl he might consider dating- and you get to pick the
perfect moment for you.
3.
Start talking. Find an opportunity to chat him up about
something you have in common, whether it’s school, work, or a random event you
both just saw happen.
·
Open
with a question. This will show you’re interested in getting to know him, not
just interested in talking about youtself.
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Transition
to talking about him. People love to talk about themselves.
·
Smile
and laugh. Again, this shows that your comfortable around him and, more than
that, that you enjoy listening to him talk.
4. Break the touch barrier. Fiding small ways to touch
him is an obvios signal that you’re flirting, and shows him that you’re willing
to make a small level of physical contact. Try doing it in these ways:
·
Touch
his forearm lightly while you’re talking. When he makes a funny joke, reach
your hand out and touch his arm while
you’re laughing. Alternatively, you can do this as a form of playful or genuine
consolation.
·
Put
a hand on his shoulder. This works best if you’restanding close.
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“Accidentally”
lean into into him if you’re walking together. If you’re already flirty and you
want to move things to the next level, brush your hand against his a few times
and see how he reacts.
5.
Pay him a compliment. Don’t expect the
compliments to go one-way-guys like them, too! Making him feel appreciated and
noticed shows him that you’re interested in him as a person, and you’re paying
attention to what’s important. Here’s how to make your compliment even more
amazing;
·
Lean
in close and lower your voice slightly. This makes the compliment seem intimate
and secret.
·
Make
eye contact while you say it. This will highlight your sincerity.
·
Keep
smiling slightly. This will highlight the intimacy of the compliment.
·
Be
specific. The more specific you are, the more personal the compliment will be,
If you say something generic such as “I think you’re hot,” chances will be that
he’s heard it before. If you focus on a specific trait or quality that you
love, the compliment will be fresh
6.
End it before he gets
bored. Don’t
let the conversation drag on so long that he has time to get bored or
distracted. Instead, walk away while he’s still interested so that he can’t wait
to see you again.
·
Leave
an opening for next time. If you say, “I have to run, but maybe I’ll see you
around tomorrow?”, you’ve already planted the idea that you’ll see him again.
·
Lean
in like you want a kiss, but at the las minute turn your head and whisper “I
had a great time” in his ear.
Tips
·
Everyone
loves a genuine smile, so flash him one! You rock!
·
Make
friends with his friends, this way when you go and see him you can talk to them
too and can talk to him about you being friends.
·
After
a few days don’t talk to him, let him come to you.
·
Never
degrade yourself by acting unintelligent just for attention. Guys who are worth
having want a girl who can have good, intelligent conversations.
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Don’t
act too desperate. It will make you look as if you’re pathetic and maybe too
clingy which will obviously scare him off.
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A
great way to tell is try sitting beside him, and touching your les to his les
lightly, if he doesn’t move it, push a bit harder so that he would notice it
for sure, but not too hard for him to move away. If he likes you, he will not
move that leg AT ALL, no matter what.
·
If
you don’t know if he is interested, look down at his feet. If they are facing you,
he is probably interested.
·
Another
quick way of flirting with your eyes is to make eye contact, quickly look away,
and, ever so slowly, drag your eyes back to his. Most of the time, it gives
them a rush and may leave them staring at you with their mouth slightly open.
·
When
he’s around his friends, barely talk to his friends, but talk mostly to him.
That way, he’ll be left under the impression that out of all the guys thre, you
want him and no other.
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Don’t
let him do things that you don’t want.
·
Only
show as much skin as you are comfortable with. If that means showing less or
more skin than usual, do it.
^_^ guud luck
