How to find the Man of Your Dreams
Every
women dreams of finding that perfect manb, but the trouble is turning those
dreams into reality. There is no perfect way to guarantee that you will find
him, but there are steps that you can take to greatly improve your chances.
Keep reading to find out what you can do to find the man of your dreams.
The important thing to do is as follows:
Understand yourself.
Know your own real
needs and distinguish them for other people’s expectations. Be honest with
yourself about your faults, you need to meet someone who will find your faults
minor and forgivable but prize your strengths. Sometimes they’re the same thing
– a determined go-getter can be described as stubbom by someone who doesn’t
like her. Try turning every criticism anyone ever gave you inside out, find the
compliment version and ask if it’s true.
The way you dress is
very important in a first impression.
It can really determine what kind of guys you
attract. If you dress in a way that is in your comfort zone, you will probably
attract a good and commitment-making yuy. If you dress out of your comfort zone
you might be seen as timid or nervous. If you dress to express a subculture
like Goth or medieval recreation or something, you’ll stand a better chance of
finding someone within that subculture but it may put off mainstream guys.
Artistits are attracted to women with paint in the hair, mainstream guys might
not be.
Don’t expect
perfection.
Admit
it; you’re not perfect. No one is. If you’re looking for a 100% perfect man,
you will never find him. So be quick to forgive those little mistakes or
annoying habits that don’t really matter, and hopefully he will overlook your
imperfections too. Understand what types of annoying habits rile you so much
they’re a deal-breaker and be up front about those, as well as those you don’t
yhink of as a big deal. If you can’t stand a forgetful man, you may have to
bend on something else to find one who never forgets an anniversary or errand.
Understand
codependence.
There
are many good books and article about codependence. A condenpendent
relationship brings out the worst in both partners and shatters lives. If you
grew up in a codependent environment, seek counseling and learn to overcome
codependent habits before getting serious about any romantic relationship.
You’re better off taking your time than enduring the emotional and possibly
physical abuse of codependence. That’s what it leads to- abuse.
Be the person you want
to marry
. What
kind of person are you attracted too? What kinds of traits does he have to
have? In order to attract the kind of person you like, you have to have those
traits too. Also look at taits that are complementary – if you’re very
domestic, you may be happier with a man who doesn’t putter in your kitchen but
never gripes about mowing the lawn or cleaning the gutters.
Be real
Don’t try to be
someone you’re not, or you may get typecast in a narrow role that doesn’t
include all that you are. If you’re normally casual and dress to the nines
whenever you meet him, he may reasonably expect you do dress like that all the
time and be disappointed once you’re together. If you pretend you don’t like
books and hook up with him, you may wind up spending the rest of your life
having an argument every time you want to order from Amazon.
Be active.
Find a hobby or two.
Whether you like to play sports, paint, play a musical instrument, or go
clubbing at night, surrounding yourself with people of your same interests will
increase your chances of meeting the man of your dreams while having fun at the
same time. Don’t think you have any hobbies? Try something creative, you may
have unexpected talents and discover it’s fun. Go out and volunteer in your
community.
Making good first
impressions are important.
You don’t have to be most fashionable person, but you do
need to keep your appearance neat and clean or seek someone equally casual.
Also, be friendly. Be the one who initiates a conversation. Smile at everyone.
If you like to be listenedto, find a shy man who likes to listen.
Tips
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Be
patient and don’t give up! He is out there!
That is all ,step by step you must do.Good Luck ^_^
