1. Be nice. There’s
nothing sweeter to a women than a genuinely kind man. Have manners and
act mature. Don’t be loud and rude to other people, this might put them
off, so be kind and polite. If you go and talk to her tell her how
beautiful she looks but don’t over do it cause then she’ll think
something suspicious is going on, be cool and down-to-earth.
2. Use your niceness correctly. Being
nice doesn’t mean you have to be timid, stuttering, and a pushover. You
have to be confident in yourself. But this is where you have to draw
the line between confident-and-nice and confident-and-a-jrek. Care about
people. Don’t be mean. Don’t ill=wish anybody, and when speaking to new
people, appear interested in what they’re saying. Say kind things.
Making fun of people is extremely unattractive.
3. Be honest with her. Nothing
is attractive about lies. If you really want to be with her, always
tell the truth and never twist stories. If you’re only looking for a
one-time thing and not a relationship, tell her. Nothing is worse than a
lying jerk.
4. Have a sense of humor. For
the aspiring funny guy,don’t tell racist/stupid/sex/dirty jokes. Try to
use more subtle, more sophisticated and less cliché humor.
5. Be confident. Show
that you want a commitment towards the girl. Appreciante life and your
future and it may be given back to you. Try hard and don’t be to leyed
back because then she’ll think that you will get nowhere in life and
just dump you.
6.. Have eye contact. Always
look intro her eyes and don’t disconnect before she does. It proves
your confidence. But don’t stare because they will think you’re playing
around anad won’t take it seriously.
7. Don’t jump ahead. If
you’re in a relationship don’t bug for sex, she may not want that and
she will probably think that you just want the sex and love but not her.
This will make her feel uncomfortable and think of you as a selfish
person. Do what she wants if she wants to take it slowly, step-by-step
you do that, but if she wants to go up a step and f**k you than be wise
and take control.
8. Do not cheat. Stay
with her, if you think she’s boring tell her in a nice way so she won’t
feel to hurt. The last thing you want is for here to lose trust in you,
she might never come back to you. If you go to a club and get drunk and
go off with another women, and maybe having sex with her, she will
never forgive you, only if she’s done it herself.
9.. Be yourself. Remember
that different types of girl like different types of guys. Just becase
one girl isn’t into you, doesn’t mean they all won’t be. Some girl like
dorks like jocks, others are into lones and some are into geeks. Don’t
try to be someone you’re not. There is a match for everyone.
10. Don’t look for the obvious. Of
course, you’ll like to date a women that stepped out of playboy
magazine or a porn movie, but the chances of meeting someone of that
level is pretty low unless you are a celebrity. That is what every guy’s
fantasy is.
The most important thing is:
- Many women prefer a toned look-your muscles are visible but they are not so large you cant put your arms all the way down.
- Give them that which they do not have. A women with a “great personality probably doesn’t hear about hoe beautiful her eyes are that often,whereas a drop dead gorgeous women may hardly be respected enough to be asked what her political views on a topic are. Know your audience, and adapt. If they are used to what you are saying, what could possibly give you the advantage over the next guy?
- Remember: It’s not the looks that are most important. It’s your personality that most womwn are looking for.
- Not all women want the same things in men. Some women might want the muscle, jerk type; others tend to shift their eyes towards geeks or nerds. Above all, just be and show your true self.
- Notice the smallest, most minute detail. It shows you care enough to notice, or gives you a good opener in a bar. Remembering some small detail about something she said, dropped ino a conversation later is always a winning move!
- Try to show off. Speak in smart language or as a couple always try to improve and be different
- Don’t cheat.
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