The most important thing to do is as follows:
Understand yourself.
Know your own real needs and they stand for expectations of others. Be honest with yourself about your mistakes, you need someone who can meet your minor faults and forgivable but prize to find your strengths. Sometimes they are the same thing - a particular getter can be described as stubborn by someone who does not like her. Try turning any criticism anyone ever gave you inside, find the compliment version and ask if it is true.
The way you dress is very important in a first impression.
It can really determine what kind of guys you attract. If you dress in a way that is in your comfort zone, you will probably attract a good and commitment-making yuy. If you have to undress your comfort zone you may be seen as timid or nervous. If you dress to a subculture, such as Gothic or medieval recreation or to express something, you have a better chance of finding someone standing within that subculture, but it can scare mainstream boys. Artis Tits are attracted to women with paint in her hair, maybe not mainstream boys.
Do not expect perfection.
Admit it, you are not perfect. Nobody is. If you are looking for a 100% perfect man, you will never find him. So be quick to those little mistakes or annoying habits that do not really matter forgiven, and hopefully he will look at your imperfections. Understand what kinds of annoying habits rile you that they have a deal-breaker and up front about that, and you do not Yhink of a big deal. If you can not stand a man forgetful, you may need to bend on something else for someone who never forgets to find. An anniversary or a message
Understand codependence.
There are many good books and article about codependence. A condenpendent relationship brings out the worst in both partners and shatters lives. If you grew up in a codependent environment, seek guidance and learn to overcome codependent habits before you get serious about a romantic relationship. You're better off taking your time than enduring the emotional and possibly physical abuse of codependence. That's what it leads to abuse.
Be the person you want to marry
. What kind of person are you attracted to? What types of properties should he have? To the kind of person you want to attract, you also have those properties. Also, look at Tait complementary - if you are very homey, you may be happier with a man who does not putter in your kitchen, but never gripes about mowing the lawn or cleaning the gutters.
Be real
Do not try to be someone you're not, or you can get typecast in a narrow role that does not contain everything you are. If you normally casual and dress to perfection when you meet him, he can reasonably expect you dress like that all the time and be disappointed when you are together.
Be active.
Find a hobby or two. Whether you want to play sports, painting, playing a musical instrument, or do you surround yourself with people of similar interests clubbing at night, your chances of meeting the man of your dreams while having fun raising. At the same time Do not think you have hobbies? Try something creative, you may have unexpected talents and discover it's fun. Go out and volunteer in your community.
Making a good first impressions are important.
You do not have to be the most fashionable person but you have to look neat and clean or find someone equally casual. Also friendly. Be the one who initiates a call. Smile at everyone. If you like listened to find a shy man who likes to listen.
# Be patient and do not give up! He is there!
That is all ,step by step you must do.Good Luck ^_^
