Do not be afraid to fall in love


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So, I think you have finally found the ONE.

Someone who has an established career finally come into your life with stable financial status, responsible, good looking, intelligent and good-humored person has.
But just when you think you finally met the ideal man or woman of your dreams, everything seems to be wrong and complicated. Suddenly he lost his job, she went bankrupt, he became careless, and she became paranoid about everything. You try to help your partner in dealing with the problem, but it always turns out that he was too good to ask help from anyone, even you.




But despite everything you still do almost anything to your friend without you realize that he is slowly draws you into the abyss of depression and helplessness them in. If you feel that you are no longer healthy, happy, to feel help, and grow in the relationship, that's the moment when you are stuck in a bad relationship.

Stuck and Stranded

It is always hard to end any kind of relationship, especially if it's a romantic relationship. But no matter how hard something that you thought the end is precious, you should know when a relationship especially if you are very well aware that it does not do any good, are at the end.

Signs of the times would probably tell you if you were stuck in a bad relationship. Experts agree that the relationship is bad, if the couple experiencing an unusual period of strife and bitterness that inevitably in some respects. You will also know if you are a bad relationship into a hole when it incessantly trouble and everything-even your partner-seems unattainable contains.

The main determinant if you are in a bad relationship is the behavior of your partner. You can determine if your partner is beyond your reach of communication and understanding that you are stuck in a bad relationship, he does not want to make the commitment, do not confess their feelings, even if it is or not some kind of obligation simply incapable of loving anyone other than himself.

Studies also show that in any bad relationship, the couple often on different wavelengths are almost no common ground and no connection or communication that is to irritation and disappointment.

Because of bad relationships usually from chronic response, one or both partners have to be derived, the relationship itself can even damage the self-esteem of the victims. Bad relationship also harmful to people, especially those who have invested so much in their careers for their personal lives since these serve as a perfect breeding ground for rage, bitterness, self-doubt, melancholy and despair

Aside from emotional distress, staying in a bad relationship can be hazardous to your health. The most common hazard of bad relationship is the physical harm caused by an abusive partner. In less severe cases, cause tensions and various chemical changes can often triggered by so much stress in a bad relationship.

Being in a bad relationship reflects so much on the person's overall health and well-being because it can drain energy, thus lowering the resistance of the body against disease. Common health hazards are in a bad relationship severe headache, back pain, abdominal pain and anger and frustration, insomnia and melancholy caused by emotional stress, and weight problems are caused by irregular behavioral patterns and depression caused.

If couples continue in a relationship that is no longer healthy, they will try to find a way to not inside by escape stuck alcoholic or drug dependent. Worse still, stuck in an unhealthy relationship can eventually lead to recurrent suicide attempts.

Break free

What most people do not realize is in relationships that the more they try to work things out, things are more complicated. This is because both people in the relationship try so hard, through the stage without realizing that they separate with their respective partners vomit. As a result of this detachment is misunderstanding, incompatibility, and soon enough, falling in love.

If you are already in a bad relationship that robs you of your freedom to be yourself, the freedom to love other people, and the freedom to be out of an unhealthy relationship and ruin, here are some things you can do to can get back.

1 Consider your health as the first priority in life whether you are in or out of a romantic relationship.

2 Try "selfish" at times by focusing on your own needs above all else.

3 Strong enough to handle their own problems.

4 Having a positive outlook in life and cultivate positive values, what you gain in this respect.

5 Nurture your spiritual side and try to find ways or activities that can bring you inner peace.

6 If the relationship was quite traumatic, think of professional help or find a support group where you can chare your experiences and the lessons you have learned.

7 Do not be afraid to fall in love, but try more careful next time, so you are not stuck in a bad relationship.