How about cheating thought? Why do people feel tempted to cheat and
why be in a relationship only to have a wandering eye? The truth is, no body
means to feel tempted most of us want to be good, committed and loyal, because
that is what we also want from others. We enter relationship, because we crave
romance that is special and different from all the other connections we make
with people in our everyday lives.
We also enter relationships because we do not want to be alone and therefore search for the one person. Who we feel we are most compatible with, so that we can grow old together through thick and thin.
We also enter relationships because we do not want to be alone and therefore search for the one person. Who we feel we are most compatible with, so that we can grow old together through thick and thin.
Usually, when a person feels tempted to cheat, it rarely has to do
just sex or the way another person look. Sure, we all still acknowledge other
people’s good look even when in a serious relationship, but that is not enough
to lure us into actual cheating. The following is the top three reasons people
feel tempted to cheat in a relationship:
Being Stuck in a Pattern
Relationships often get stuck in a pattern, talking away all the mystery and
excitement. Many assume that all relationship eventually loses all excitement,
but this does not have to be true. Keeping each other interested and making
sure your relationship is never ending journey of discoveries will keep you and
your partner close and always interested in each other. So be sure not to get
stuck in a pattern and do not get lazy with your relationship. Remember to keep
dating each other and trying new thing that will have both learning new things
about each other.
Lack of Communication As a
relationships get older and more nature, people tend to become too comfortable
and confident that everything is okay and often begin to stop communicating
like the used to. Many also assume that their partner should know everything
about them by now and three four they should not have to tell them anything.
When the communication is lacking in a relationship, one or both partners start
to feel alone and disconnected emotionally and begin to crave that close
connection again. This is when a person can start noticing other people and
becomes tempted to find some one outside the relationship who will give them
attention and comfort they feel is lacking in the relationship. Make sure you
always keep the communication between you and your partner open and that it is
done on daily basis, even if it is only something very simply and small being
said.
Having too much Friendship Being
good friends is essential for a relationship and it important to have a
strong friendship along with the strong romance, However as a relationship
natures, people tend to focus more on their friendship and close connection and
begin to neglect the romantic side of their relationship, causing the relationship
to lose it’s spark and passion. This can cause one or both partner to feel
tempted to cheat, because eventually, he or she will crave that romantic and
sexual closeness and if he or she feels it is no longer possible or exciting
with you, then cheating can occur to satisfy that desire and need for
romantic/sexual connection.
There is never a 100% guarantee that your partner will ever cheat on
you and you will have to trust each other and listen to your instincts as well,
but you should also invest your best effort in making sure that your
relationship is as healthy as possible. So keep your communication open and
honest, add variety to keep things exciting and keep a healthy balance of both
close friendship and hot romance.
