How to move on in life after losing someone you loved.
The most Importand think:
Make a list of things
you always wanted to do and never did: You’ve probably wanted to do a lot but
never got around to it because the relationship was taking up so much of your
time. Once you are done with the list, you will see how much life has to offer
you.
Don’t wallow in
self-pity:Breaking
up is tough even if it’s you has the other person. What’s important is that you
realize that life go on. Start something new, even if it doesn’t take off, you
would at least be happier with the experience.
Mett up with old
friends:
Or make new friends. A good way to meet like minded people is to join a club
related to your interests.
Brainwash or use logic
to beat the blues:
If your ex-love was pain, getting over it should be easier. Just focus on the
negatives and be happy that you are out of a toxic relationship. If the person
was really nice, then it’s tougher, but then again, be happy that you had the
opportunity to meet such a person. Remember that everyone comes into lives for
a reason, it’s not the quantity, but the quality of the relationship that
matters.
Bless him/her: Despite everything
that’s happened, bring yourself to truly forgive. If possible, go up to the
person and tell him/her that you have been deeply hurt, but you forgive them
for all they have done. This helps you to move on, and belive in humanity once
more.
Don’t stay home: You don’t need money
to walk down your street, look at the sky, enjoy a book or other simple
pleasures that life has to offer us.
Forget yourself: Remember that there
is always love to give and there is so much we can do to make our lives richer.
Learn your lessons and embrace the light. Give yourself to a cause greater that
yourself, and suddenly all your worries will disappear.
Keep the faith: It’s easy to become
bitter, but remember, that will not make you happier. Religion, music, animals,
sport; any of these can bring back the warmth into your life.
Refrain from talking
about your ex-love all the time: Your friends will soon disappear and you
will find it harder.
Delete everything:phone numbers, chat
logs. It might hurt you, but you won’t red this logs or call him/her.
Get rid of all poems,
misic, flims:
when you are walking in your flat, you won’t see things, that could recall
about your love.
Remove all object that
remind you of him/her.
