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Current situations - Jobs, personal demands, and even being on the front line or in prison can all be situations which are difficult to extract yourself from, for obvious reasons. If you or the one you love is in a constraining situation, then it will surely hinder your chances or efforts to meet.
~Consider all of these aspects of your
relationship, emotions and lives. If you think that it is still feasible, then
by all means you should at least form a plan to meet. However if, like you
originally suspected, you're never going to meet the other person, then you
need to accept the inevitable, take actions to end the relationship, and move
on.
~End the relationship. You
need to talk or communicate to the person that you know you are never going to
meet and explain that you want to end the relationship. Chances are, they will
have been feeling the same way about not meeting. End it exactly the same way
as you would a normal, in-person relationship, and expect similar heartache to
arise, too. Ending the relationship means ceasing all romantic and emotional
interactions (and possibly all contact) with the person and making it a clean
break without getting into a heated argument. It really is important to take
all the same steps as you would with a real-life relationship - block all
contact and don't assume you can be friends!
~Get closure. The key is to make sure that both of you know that there
is no chance ever again, no matter how hard it will be for a while, and that
things are not going to work out. If you still feel like you love the person,
try to gain closure from within and tell yourself a few things which will ease
your fears:
You will find love again! Internet relationships are
hard because of all the "What ifs...?". What if you
don't find anyone else? What if they really are 'the one'? What if it
could have worked out? What if they lied about everything they said? What
if you had met them—would it have been different? Just remember that
if someone who never met you could feel so strongly about you and you
could feel so strongly about them, then someone else you can meet with
face-to-face will be able to do this too.If meeting the person really isn't a possibility, then it's nobody's fault. Internet and long-distance relationships are difficult, and engaging in one is commendable in itself. However, the odds are against you, and you both have to be in a similar place of mind to make one work successfully.
Relationships are hard, even in real life. If you were having doubts or struggling with a relationship over the Internet, be thankful that you've saved yourself the trouble of having those problems doubled in real life. Situations change when you meet someone, and quite often not for the better. You can never know what would've happened if you had met in real life, so leave your fears, doubts and "What ifs...?" behind. It's time to move on with your life and love and start healing yourself.
Just be thankful
you didn't even have to meet the person. If things had gone wrong, as implied
by the difficulty of meeting, then knowing the person in real life would make
it harder to get over them. You really need to just forget all about them. Even
if it sounds cruel, you need to forget they ever existed.
If
you really both loved each other, then you'll want each other to be happy. If
you can't satisfy the relationship's needs by meeting, then you know it's for
the best that you go your separate ways. "If you love someone set them
free" is a good saying to remember at this point. You will soon feel
much better about ending the relationship if you know it will be making the
other person happy and you'll feel more invigorated knowing that the other
person would want you to be happy also.
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