How to Hug
Warnings
·
Don’t
hug someone if you’re swety or stinky. Also, make sure that you have fresh
breath before initiating close contact.
·
Avoid
a hug with a running start unless the person being hugged is aware you are
about to give an embrace. The last thing you want to do is to knock the person
over.
Hugs are a great way
to express affection. Hugging show that you care about a person and that you
support that person through good times and bad. However, you want to hug your
crush or your lover differently than you hug a friend or family member. Read on
for some tips on the best ways to hug the people that you care about.
Steps
Hugging a Crush
Approach
your crush carefully. Smile and say some
caring words. Make sure that he or she is expecting a hug! It can be awkward if
you come up and hug someone out of the blue.
·
Hugs
often happen at celebratory events like birthday parties. Graduations, or when
two people are reunited after a long absence.
Lean forward and put
your two arms around your crush, pressing the person you are hugging warmly
toward you. Lucky you!
·
If
you are a man, her arms should be around your neck, and you should be embracing
her around the waist. Keep her in that position for no more than a couple
seconds, and let go and soon as she does. Look her in the eyes when you
separate and continue the conversation naturally.
·
If
you are the woman, put your arms behind his neck and press your CHEST LIGHTLY
AGAINST HIS CHEST. Let go as soon as he does.
Hugging a Lover
Approach your lover
and put your hands on his or her shoulders. The experience is just as romantic
whether no matter who initiates the hug.
Look your lover in the
eyes and say, “I Love you.” If you want to, tell him or her how much you care and how
much you love spending every second together.
Fall into each other. Hug the person you
love for as long as you want to.
·
Males
: Carefully slinding both your hands down from her shoulders, put them on her
waist and slide them around her lower back. Put your head on her shoulder and
press her towards you for as long as you like.
·
If
you want to, you can give her a small massage with your hands, and try to warm
her.
·
You
can also lift her in the air and shift her wight towards you. Girls especially
love this one.
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When
you separate, you can look into your lovers’s eyes, smile genuinely and, if the
situation is fitting, kiss her like you mean it.
·
Females
: Extend your arms toward him and wrap them around his neck and shoulders. Lean
as close as possible and press your torso against his.
·
In
situations of extreme intimacy, interlocking your leg in his is appropriate.
·
Avoid
holding your arms below his shoulders and embracing too tightly, even if you’re
about the same height as he is.
Hugging a Family
Member
·
Walk over to your
family member. Approach
your family member with kind feelings. Obviosly, the feelings won’t be the same
as what you’d feel for a crush,
LOVER
OR A CLOSES FRIEND (UNLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY MEMBER ARE ALSO FRIENDS).
Embrace your family
member.
Continuing
to talk while hugging is okey.
·
Where
you place your hands is not important because the person you’re hugging won’t
think it over too much.
·
Stoke
your hands quickly across the top of the other person’s back. Smile whwn you
let go.
Embrace your friend.
·
Girls
: Close your eyes and think about how much you love your frind when hugging.
Press as much as you feel like without squishing your friend. Do not clap the
person you’re hugging on the shoulders. Some girls think you don’t like them if
you do it that way.
·
Guys
: Embrace strongly, and clap each other on the top your backs. If you’re having
an emotional moment, hold the hug for a brief moment and do not clap others
backs.
Hugging a Friend
·
Go up to your friend. Give your friend a
genuine smile. If your friend is hugging someone else, look a little forlorn and
you’ll probably get a hug, too.
