Challenging and difficult, though they may
not be what we want to hear, are the words that best describe long distance
relationship. Keep in mind however, that the words are challenging and
difficult, not impossible. Many people choose to give a long distance
relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decision to
make and if it even stands a chance. The truth is, a long distance relationship
has just as much a chance of succeeding as any other relationship.
Long
Distance Relationship share the same facts as an average relationship. It
involves two people who share an interest in each other’s lives, care for one
another and of course have a lover for each other that they hope will only
continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its
differences as well. It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent
note, as well as the choice of being intimate whenever you desire, not to
mention that there would be major trust required. Being unable to spend time
together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on to, but does not
spell out doom for your relationship.
The
first step is to make an agreement of what your expectations are in the relationship
and how much of a commitment you are willing to give and receive. If the two of
you decide to be monogamous, then it is clear that neither of you will be
dating anyone else as long as your romantic relationship exist. Being clear
about what you both want is extremely important, especially in a long distance
relationship, in order to prevent future misunderstandings and mistakes. Do not
feel afraid to tell your partner what you really need and want from him or her,
you deserve the chance to speak from your heart and he or she deserves to know
the truth and judge whether they can give it to you.
Trust
is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance.
Without trust and honesty, the relationship is in for danger and
unsuccessfulness, just as it would be any other relationship. By accepting the
challenge of a long distance relationship, you also accepted the fact that you
will have to have the trust and faith that your partner will not be seeing
anyone else as promised. Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts,
insecurity and tension between you and none of those there will help the
relationship survive successfully.
