You’ve
been told to be nice since you were a child. But what exactly does that mean
for an adult? “Nice” is a vague term to put it. If your partners never gave a definition.
Were your parents nice to you? Being nice people, especially your friends, can
pay off big time.
The
Most Important To Do:
A smile will let people know that you
are pleasant.
If
you smile at someone, look in the eye. For the most part, if you smile at
someone, they won’t do anything but smile back. If they don’t, then maybe they
are just having a bad day. It is up to you to set the mood of the encounter.
Make it happy by being the first to smile. Normally, making faces or moody
looks at someone is not nice.
When you’re walking past someone, even a
stranger, try to acknowledge their presence with simple “hello” or “hi” or even
just a wave or a nod in their direction.
Adding
the smile to this can make it all the more friendly. Other parents always like
kids that say hello and how do you do, and so do friends.
Ask people how they are doing.
Take
the time to ask someone how things are going in their lives, without being nosy
or intrusive. If they seem resistant to talking. Let it go and leave them alone
unless you really know them and feel you can ask. They will then understand
that you’re trying to care for them and not assume that you are a prying
person, which you are not.
Be a good listener.
Listen when other people are talking to you. It isn’t nice to just ignore other people’s opinions and stories. If you find that someone is becoming rude of pushy, listen anyway it is rude to get up and say anything just look them in the eyes while listening and remain silent, and never put your hands on your mouth or make a rude face like in the picture it shows a judge mental attitude putting off the other person, just change the topic after they’ve discussed theirs”).
Listen when other people are talking to you. It isn’t nice to just ignore other people’s opinions and stories. If you find that someone is becoming rude of pushy, listen anyway it is rude to get up and say anything just look them in the eyes while listening and remain silent, and never put your hands on your mouth or make a rude face like in the picture it shows a judge mental attitude putting off the other person, just change the topic after they’ve discussed theirs”).
Be courteous.
Always say “please,” “thank you”{ and “you’re welcome.” Be patient, observant, and considerate. Treat people with respect. Even if you don’t particularly like someone at first, they could end up being a really interesting and kind person. Don’t forget to always say “Excuse me” instead of “MOVE!”. Remember: people aren’t the ground that you can just spit on, they are living beings like you. If you are respectful to that person, that person will usually act the same way.
Always say “please,” “thank you”{ and “you’re welcome.” Be patient, observant, and considerate. Treat people with respect. Even if you don’t particularly like someone at first, they could end up being a really interesting and kind person. Don’t forget to always say “Excuse me” instead of “MOVE!”. Remember: people aren’t the ground that you can just spit on, they are living beings like you. If you are respectful to that person, that person will usually act the same way.
Be positive
. Don’t be negative or critical. Keep looking for the positive in any given situation: cheer them up. There are two sides to every situation: the positive side and the negative side. Remember to never state the negative and always to look for the positive to avoid any trouble).
. Don’t be negative or critical. Keep looking for the positive in any given situation: cheer them up. There are two sides to every situation: the positive side and the negative side. Remember to never state the negative and always to look for the positive to avoid any trouble).
Be humble.
the key to being nice is remembering that you are not “better” than someone else. You’re individual, but everybody has their struggles, and being nice to one another makes life better for everyone. Don’t brag or have a high ego. Everybody is equal. But still be positive and bright.
the key to being nice is remembering that you are not “better” than someone else. You’re individual, but everybody has their struggles, and being nice to one another makes life better for everyone. Don’t brag or have a high ego. Everybody is equal. But still be positive and bright.
Offer to help.
If you see someone struggling or doing anything, offer to help, even doing something as simple as carrying a bag of groceries, or hold the door for someone. You can also be nice to the community and the world by volunteering.
If you see someone struggling or doing anything, offer to help, even doing something as simple as carrying a bag of groceries, or hold the door for someone. You can also be nice to the community and the world by volunteering.
Be sincere.
Don’t be nice as a means to an end. If you just want to be nice so that you can gain preferential treatment, it’s quite the opposite of being nice-it’s deceptive, shallow and cruel. Be nice because you want to look back on your life and know that you were a nice person, no matter what. Be nice because you feel like you willingly want to.
Don’t be nice as a means to an end. If you just want to be nice so that you can gain preferential treatment, it’s quite the opposite of being nice-it’s deceptive, shallow and cruel. Be nice because you want to look back on your life and know that you were a nice person, no matter what. Be nice because you feel like you willingly want to.
Don’t talk about other people and don’t
be a backstabber.
Try
to be nice to everyone. Also, don’t be two-faced by talking about people who
trust you. Don’t ever gossip about other people you don’t like. It always comes
back they will talk about as soon as they hear what you have been saying.
Make sure to be as
nice as they are to you.
If friends give you a present say something honestly positive about it even if you don’t like it and make sure you don’t tell anyone that you don’t like it. It will end in a fall out, and make sure that if you haven’t got them a preset don’t tell them in a horrible voice I wouldn’t mention it at all!
If friends give you a present say something honestly positive about it even if you don’t like it and make sure you don’t tell anyone that you don’t like it. It will end in a fall out, and make sure that if you haven’t got them a preset don’t tell them in a horrible voice I wouldn’t mention it at all!
Be Mature.
If someone is being mean to you still be nice to them. Don’t bring yourself down to their level by being mean back at them. They might get your drift and stop being mean to you, talk to them nicely so they don’t take it a wrong way.
If someone is being mean to you still be nice to them. Don’t bring yourself down to their level by being mean back at them. They might get your drift and stop being mean to you, talk to them nicely so they don’t take it a wrong way.
Don’t hurt them. If
you and your brother are fighting don’t beat him up to the point where he is crying.
Be nice to him and let him have his way.
