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If
the flirting truly bothers you and you find that you cannot continue a
relationship that includes such behavior, then the best thing you could ever do
is be straightforward with your partner. Having an honest and open discussion
about it will be of much more help instead of you just getting angry and
bottling up your feelings and blowing up later down the road when you reached
the ultimate limit. Tell your partner that you feel disrespected and hurt when
he or she pays attention to other woman or man. Asking them why they feel the
need to flirt will also paint a clearer picture for you, with a clear answer
from them of course. Without giving your lover ultimatums, tell him or her that
you have tried to adapt to it but just cannot and you would love it if the two
of you could meet somewhere in the middle.
You teach
people how to treat you and the relationship, and by keeping quiet over the
things that bother you, like flirtation, you will only cheat yourself and your
partner from experiencing a relationship you both deserve. It is obligatory
that you always continue to be honest with yourself and your lover about the
feelings you feel and thoughts you think. Sometimes you will not always get the
results you were hoping for. Perhaps your partner will never stop flirting with
other people, and though you cannot change your partner’s personality and
habits, you can change a situation that causes you unhappiness.
As
the person who has committed to be in a relationship with you, your partners
should always care about how you feel and think about the things that transpire
in your relationship. They would never want to continue doing anything that
would make you upset, disappointed, jealous or insecure in any way. This means
the flirting as will. Your partner cannot change who they are, but they can
show their interest and care about how you feel and can put in the best effort they
can to make you feel better. Still, if they refuse to change or try to lessen
their flirtatious activities, then perhaps it is time you re – think of whether
or not this is the right relationship for you.
